Though Caleb Pusey , a 19-year-old who met Bynes while they were in rehab together, fits all descriptions the former Nickelodeon star has been giving out about her husband-to-be , he’s actually not the one she’s marrying. After Pusey publicly denied rumors that he’s set to wed the She’s the Man actress, Bynes takes to Twitter to clear the air about her surprise engagement. Bynes writes: “he’s not a good person and I don’t call him a friend so I don’t know why he thought i was talking about him.