Chris Evans doesn’t have all the answers, nor does he pretend to. That said, the Captain America: Civil War star seems to know a thing or two about how to make sense of a world that doesn’t often make sense. Evans recently did a video Q&A for Young and the Restless star Lindsey McKeon’s blog In one video, Evans was asked if there is any piece of wisdom he has managed to fully integrate into his life. The actor replied, “There’s a great quote I read: ‘You need the boat to cross the river, but once you cross the river, you don’t need the boat.’ I needed my confusion and my ego and my struggle to wake me up to the fact that I don’t need it. I think the part of my brain that wanted all those answers in India was the part of my brain that he was telling me just to be quiet with, just be present.”