Tori Spelling and Dean McDermott aren’t holding back in Lifetime’s True Tori . During an Apr. 9 couples counseling session, McDermott complained about infrequent sex he had with his wife. Spelling threw up her arms in defeat, but McDermott didn’t understand why his honesty was so upsetting. The therapist then told him, “Dean, your expectation of what a marriage is supposed to be like sexually—it’s like a fairytale.”