Matt Bomer, he who put other male specimens to shame last night at the Met Ball, has revealed new details about his super-on-the-down-low 2011 wedding to publicist Simon Halls. “It was very chill,” he tells Out magazine. “Very small—only our nearest and dearest. There’s a security, a validity of knowing that it’s legal. It’s hard to put into words. It’s just a feeling, I guess—something about saying vows in front the people around you who love and support you. I think it was good for our family.”