Ruby Rose has a lot to be happy about these days she’s happily engaged to designer Phoebe Dahl and has a role on the upcoming third season of Orange Is the New Black! There was a time, though, that the 29-year-old Australian star wasn’t fully content with her life. As she tells Cosmopolitan, “For a long time, I wished I’d been born a boy.” The model-turned-actress and Phoebe, granddaughter of author Roald Dahl, announced their engagement news in March 2014 via Instagram. Prior to this, Ruby had identified publicly as a lesbian, but after Break Free, her short film about gender roles, she began to describe herself as gender fluid.